By Karen Ingala Smith | The Guardian
from The Guardian
Thursday, Oct 14, 2021
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The 81 women, named below. Composite: Family and Police Handouts |
Since Sarah Everard’s brutal murder, only one thing has changed – the death toll
People said something had changed with the awful death of Sarah Everard. But the message certainly hasn’t reached the men who rape, harm and kill women. And I can’t see a difference in the government, police, Crown Prosecution Service or the judiciary either.
Since Sarah Everard was abducted, raped, murdered and, in the words of her mother, “disposed of as if she were rubbish”, at least 81 other UK women have been killed in circumstances where the suspect is a man. It is absolutely ludicrous that we know this because of my work, a random northern woman in east London, not the government, not the National Police Chiefs Council. Each of these women will have died in terror and pain, just like Sarah. Each one leaves behind grieving friends and family for whom the loss will last a lifetime.
It is significant that Sarah was killed by a serving police officer, but I wish the suffering of these women, and the anguish of those who loved them, were not accepted as normal and inevitable.
Men’s fatal violence against women cuts across all sections of society, across ages, class and ethnicity. But some women are afforded more empathy than others. Some are more likely to be disbelieved, to be blamed, to be sent away without the help they need. This appalling hierarchy of victims continues into death. It is almost always the young, conventionally attractive, middle-class white woman killed by a stranger, the perfect victim, that makes the front pages. Not the 50-year-old from a council estate in Leicestershire, killed by the father of her children after a 30-year marriage, where her life and dignity have been chipped away, little by little, every day. Perhaps until she found the strength to leave him and he chose to exercise the ultimate form of control. I want every woman’s death to be a reason for soul-searching.
I started Counting Dead Women in January 2012, after the murder of 20-year-old Kirsty Treloar, who had been referred to the charity of which I am chief executive, when she was trying to leave her violent boyfriend. A year and a half later, Clarrie O’Callaghan and I had our first conversation, one that would lead to the development of the Femicide Census. We’ve made Freedom of Information requests going back to 2009 about men’s fatal violence against women. From this we’ve identified that 62% of women killed by men are killed by a partner or ex-partner, and that at least a third of these women were in the process of leaving, or had left him; that teenage girls, as well as women in their 80s or 90s, can be killed by men who were supposed to love them; that 92% of women who are killed by men are killed by someone they know. One in 12 is a woman who is killed by her son.
Black women are disproportionately victimised, yet more likely to receive a sub-standard response from state agencies. And Sarah Everard was the 16th woman to be killed by a serving or former police officer since 2009.
Has something changed since Sarah Everard was abducted, raped, murdered and disposed of by Wayne Couzens? The government has published the third national strategy to tackle violence against women that doesn’t name men as the perpetrators in the title. It names high-profile victims in the introduction but doesn’t name femicide.
It is a folly if we set an ambition to end men’s violence against women and girls if we cannot name women as disproportionally the victims and men as overwhelmingly the perpetrators of sexual and domestic violence and abuse.
The Observer and Femicide Census’s End Femicide campaign is important. The media plays a huge role in shaping people’s attitudes and understanding and it is to the Observer’s credit that it is looking at femicide in depth. Femicide is not just homicide of women by men, it’s about how and why women are killed and how this is different from when men are killed.
Understanding this is a key step towards ending femicide.
The 81 Women allegedly killed by men since the murder of Sarah Everard:
1. Geetika Goyal, 29, died 4 March
2. Imogen Bohajczuk, 29, died 4 March
3. Wenjing Xu, 16, died 5 March
4. Karen McClean, 50, died 19 March
5. Stacey Knell, 30, died 19 March
6. Smita Mistry, 32, died 23 March
7. Sammy Mills, 31, died 23 March
8. Patricia Audsley, 66, died 25 March
9. Phyllis Nelson, 76, died 26 March
10. Klaudia Soltys, 30, died 27 March
11. Simone Ambler, 49, died 29 March
12. Emma McArthur, 49, died 1 April
13. Sherrie Milnes, 51, died 1 April
14. Constanta Bunea, 50, died 4 April
15. Jacqueline Grant, 54, died 6 April
16. Loretta Herman, 85, died 9 April
17. Egle Vengaliene, 34, died 9 April
18. Sally Metcalf, 68, died 10 April
19. Sarah Keith, 26, died 13 April
20. Peggy Wright, 83, died 18 April
21. Charmaine O’Donnell, 25, died 23 April
22. Michelle Cooper, 40, died 23 April
23. Kerry Bradford, 57, died 25 April
24. Julia James, 53, died 27 April
25. Beth Aspey, 34, died 30 April
26. Susan Booth, 62, died 2 May
27. Mayra Zulfiqar, 26, died 3 May
28. Maria Rawlings, 45, died 4 May
29. Chenise Gregory, 29, died 4 May
30. Agnes Akom, 20, went missing 9 May
31. Wendy Cole, 70, died 10 May
32. Caroline Crouch, 20, died 11 May
33. Svetlana Mihalachi, 53, died 12 May
34. Nicola Kirk, 45, died 12 May
35. Unnamed woman, 32, died 13 May
36. Agita Geslere, 61, died 25 May
37. Lauren Wilson, 34, died 26 May
38. Peninah Kabeba, 42, died 27 May
39. Jill Hickery, 80s, died 29 May
40. Bethany Vincent, 26, died 31 May
41. Esther Brown, 67, died 1 June
42. Michaela Hall, 49, died 1 June
43. Mildred Whitmore, 84, died 1 June
44. Stacey Clay, 39, died 2 June
45. Linda Hood, 68, died 11 June
46. Marlene Coleman, 53, died 16 June
47. Sophie Cartlidge, 39, died 18 June
48. Gracie Spinks, 23, died 18 June
49. Michelle Hibbert, 29, died 19 June
50. Kim Dearden, 63, died 20 June
51. Sally Poynton, 44, died 22 June
52. Catherine Wardleworth, 70s, died 23 June
53. Sukhjit Badial, 73, died 29 June
54. Elsie Pinder, 66, died 3 July
55. Catherine Stewart, 54, died 4 July
56. Ishrat Ahmed, 52, died 4 July
57. Tamara Padi, 43, died 7 July
58. Katie Brankin, 37, died 12 July
59. Sandra Hughes, 63, died 13 July
60. Beatrice Stoica, 36, died 23 July
61. Pat Holland, 83, died 24 July
62. Yordanos Brhane, 19, died 31 July
63. Amanda Selby, 15, died 31 July
64. Louise Kam, 71, found dead 1 August
65. Malgorzata Lechanska, 37, died 1 August
66. Megan Newborough, 23, found dead 8 August
67. Diana Nichols, 57, died 9 August
68. Maxine Davison, 51, died 12 August
69. Kate Shepherd, 66, died 12 August
70. Bella Nicandro, 76, died 14 August
71. Eileen Barrott, 50, died 15 August
72. Sharon Pickles, 45, died 19 August
73. Helen Anderson, 41, died 23 August
74. Jade Ward, 27, died 26 August
75. Maddie Durdant-Hollamby, 22, died 27 August
76. Fawziyah Javed, 31, died 2 September
77. Ingrid Matthew, 54, died 11 September
78. Sabina Nessa, 28, 17 September
79. Unnamed woman, died 17 September
80. Terri Harris, 35, died 19 September
81. Sukhjeet Uppal, 40, died 19 September
[Data compiled by Karen Ingala-Smith on her blog Counting Dead Women]
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